Living Well in Cozy Hong Kong
Swept up, it’s fair to say, in the day to day living of travelling is why it’s been two weeks since leaving Hong Kong and I still haven’t written about it. That and it was a mixed bag of lived experiences, but isn’t that always the way?!
Hong Kong was very special for Jason and I, because my wonderful and sweet Aunt Monica connected us with an old family friend who lives there, Carol, and her husband Andreas. Carol and my Uncle Ed used to ride the train together decades ago into work in DC. During their morning commutes they started talking and became friends. That friendship has transcended the years and still to this day they keep in touch.
Carol moved away from Maryland years ago and eventually landed in Hong Kong with her German husband. She’s raised two children there, who are going to university in various parts of the world, and she herself travels quite frequently. The day after we left she was on her way to Australia for a week to visit the largest rock in the world. It takes three whole days to hike around it and that was one of many planned excursions on her journey. All while nursing an injured knee.
For my older readers who worry about their limitations and perhaps feel they have reached the end of their adventurous years, I’d say see Carol’s example of how to live well, stay active, and don’t stop exploring. Below is the selection of their travel library. 
The world is wide, but start small and you’ll see more of it than having never starting at all.
Carol is not only well traveled, she’s also the best host anyone could ever ask for. Hong Kong is quite expensive and we’re budget traveling, so having a place to stay there was wonderful enough, but she provided so much more for us than just that.
In Taipei, as you recall, we were wet and weary. The AirBnB was shitty, it rained literally every day, often pouring to the point that the day was completely shot, and the city itself wasn’t particularly clean or inviting. By the end I grew fond of it’s quirks, and I know we would have had a great time if only the sun would have come out, but circumstances being what they were we were ready to go. While still in Taipei, Carol asked me what we liked to have for breakfast. Goodness, we normally just eat a piece of fruit and maybe a coffee if we’re lucky, or nothing at all, till we stumble hungrily into the streets seeking food. Hangry Jen isn’t happy Jen, but when you carry everything on your backs and must keep the weight down to a minimum you don’t have great food options. We let Carol know that we’re not picky eaters and anything at all she wanted to share is enough for us.
We left Taiwan in the rain and landed in Hong Kong in the rain. “What are we getting into?”, we thought. But, our anxiety washed away when we saw Carol. She was gracious and kind enough to pick us up from the airport. Not since we left had we been in someone’s vehicle (not even a taxi), so it was nice to go for a drive around Hong Kong and have a guided tour from an expert. Hong Kong was a British colony until 1997, so Britain influences much of the island still, including their driving on the “other side” of the road. I tried to climb into the driver’s seat when we got in, not realizing this!
Hong Kong is a hilly land, with curving narrow roads and a network of islands, 263 of them in the 427 sq mile territory. Over 7.2 million people live in Hong Kong, an “autonomous territory”, which boasts one of the highest per capita incomes in the world. Formally know as “Hong Kong Special Administrative Region of the People’s Republic of China”, it’s world’s tallest city, with the greatest number of skyscrapers. Those tall buildings lay host to a financial powerhouse that offers great tax benefits for corporations and personal tax freedoms for those who live there. If you’re not sure about Asia, but want to visit the region, then I encourage you to consider Hong Kong as a starting point (although Seoul will forever be my favorite).
Nature is surprisingly prevalent in Hong Kong, with less than 25% of the total land developed and 40% being completely reserved for parks and wildlife. That means you’re never more than a few minutes by ferry, bus, or car out from the domineering city and into nature preserves. To get to the wider expanses it’s more of a hike, but well worth it. Unfortunately, given our short stay, we didn’t get to see all of the nature parks that we’d liked, but that gives reason to go back. We did get a good and sweaty hike in on Lamma Island (pronounced like the animal Llama) that offered wetlands, fishing villages, steep climbs, and trail side vendors selling fresh fruits and ice cream. I opted to get a honey lemon drink from a beekeeper while hiking up a particularly arduous hill. You could see his bees buzzing out of the hive and around the surrounding area. Very charming!
Another Hong Kong memory was made at the Tian Tan Buddha, or colloquially known as the big Buddha. It was a journey to get there, taking nearly three hours via a bus, then ferry, then onto another bus that drove with great speeds up steep and curvaceous mountain roads. You don’t realize how prone you are to motion sickness until you’ve been tested like that! But, the nausea was well worth the reward.
The enormous bronze Buddha was erected in 1993 and is a major tourist attraction in Hong Kong. There’s a little village situated by the bus station that reminded me of Disneyland, as it felt very sterile and new. In the village, you can take a gondola up the mountain for sweeping views (which we did not do, but you could!).
We opted to skip the touristy bit and head straight for the 112 ft. Buddha. Along with the Buddha there’s a Buddhist monastery that was founded over a century ago, which is absolutely stunning. When we were there they were performing service and the chanting swept me away. All day long I could listen to the monks rhythmic voices harmonizing prayers. Every opportunity I’ve had to stop and take in their chanting throughout this trip I’ve done so. Prayer by chant is music made sweet and savory at once, with words I’ll never understand that surely ask to fulfill the desires that all humans have, for love and compassion, forgiveness and peace.
Carol always had great ideas for us on what to do and where to explore next. She also took us out for a night on the town with Andreas when he came back home for the weekend. Andreas works from China 1/2 the week, often flying out from there to all over the world to do business, so his time at home is short and precious. Still, they spent some of it with us and took us to a great Mediterranean restaurant and then for drinks in Lan Kwai Fong, where teems of people filled bars and the streets. Women held up signs advertising specials on 12 shots at a time to bring in patrons. We opted for a German bar celebrating Oktoberfest and drank German beers with the German who prefers Japanese beers instead; go figure! Carol and Andreas had fully intended on leaving us out to party it up, but we are old folks with little wallets and little interest in that scene any longer anyway, so we headed back in a taxi with them and had a nightcap at their home instead.
Carol and Andreas took us out for one other memorable meal of Dim Sum with two of their close friends. Dim Sum is like Chinese tapas, little plates of dumplings, meats, tarts, puddings, and other tasty treats. On Sunday morning, for traditional Hong Kong brunch, we went to Maxim’s Palace. Located in City Hall, with chandeliers lining the ceilings, this beautiful restaurant takes no reservations so you either come early or wait hours for a table. We came early, arriving right about 10:00 a.m. and didn’t have to wait at all, but the huge crowd out the door after we left must have been hungry.
Their international friends were another German and a Brit. They’d also lived in Hong Kong for a few decades and really loved the place. While we talked with them of travel, their city, their children, and their lives, the conversation ended up focusing on the US and our upcoming election. They were baffled, as Jason and I also are, about what is going on in America today. I had little consolation for them, other than to say we’re not voting, but if we were it wouldn’t be for Trump. Their level of nuance for American politics from people who have never lived in the US is stunning. What do you or I know of British or German politics? What about the entire continent of Asia? I myself am woefully ignorant, even with my college education and desire to be a globally aware citizen. They’re not, so as I’ve noted before, the world is watching and from what I can tell it doesn’t like what it’s seeing.
Moving on! Jason and I share a deep gratitude to Carol and Andreas for hosting us. We wouldn’t have had nearly as great of a time in Hong Kong without them and being in their home felt so cozy it was almost like we were transported back to our homes in the states. I definitely said to Jason more than once, “Do we have to go?” to which he replied, “Well, Carol’s going to Australia a day after we leave, so yes, we do.” Fair point, but my goodness her heart is so warm and she’s so caring that we couldn’t be more thankful for her hospitality. We just wish we could find a way to repay her for her kindness. I think we’ll aim to be the best hosts we can be and live by example when we return back to the states and have a home of our own. Carol, you and Andreas are always welcome to stay with us! We took this shot on our last night in Hong Kong after Carol’s helper, Cherry, made us a traditional Filipino meal of chicken, potatoes, vegetables, and rice. Simply mouthwatering!
Their doggy Shiba and I became fast friends too. Loved this little lady!
There’s so much more to say about this magical week, but we’ll leave it here for now. Thanks for following along the journey!
